
I had sex with a woman with Genital Herpes what are my chances of contracting this?
here are the facts… i wore a condom she gave me oral and i fingered her she told me she hasnt had a break out in a while…
also i really like her but this is something that is really freaking me out because i dont want herpes but i do want to be in love and she seems interested in me. i was recently blood tested and im clean 100% can i be with her and not get herpes or am i doomed to this virus?
I was with one ex for almost 4 years and he never got genital herpes from me. So, it is possible for one person to have the virus and the other not. It CAN happen.
But, I was with my fiance (boyfriend at the time) for only 2 months and he contracted the virus from me! I hadn’t had an outbreak in over 2 years and he still got it from me.
Whenever a person has sex with someone who has genital herpes there is ALWAYS going to be a chance that the virus can be spread. NOTHING is 100% effective in preventing herpes (except abstinence). Condoms HELP, anti viral medication HELPS, not having sex while she is on an outbreak HELPS, but nothing is truly 100% effective.
You are just going to have to make a decision about whether or not you want to be with her. If you decide to leave then fine, but if you decide to stay then you have to know there is going to be a chance that you will contract the virus from her. My boyfriend (now fiance) wanted to be with me despite the fact that I have genital herpes. He loves me for ME, virus and all.
Herpes is always given a lot of crap and people work it up to be a HUGE deal when it’s really not. It’s estimated about 75 – 80% of the WORLD has cold sores (oral herpes) and about 25% of the wolrd has genital herpes. It is VERY common!
Take care!
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